When “Love your enemies” Means “Love your rapist”

Neither the church nor the world understand the pain they have caused rape victims.


The Dangers Of “It’s Not Your Fault”

But you know you made bad decisions. Drank too much vodka. Smoked too much weed. Stuck around after the 18th apology. The list goes on.

It’s Not Trump- It’s You

I know why it bothers me so much.  The Trump video, that is.  I couldn’t quite put a finger on it until today. Ever since the video was released, I have had this internal anger and confusion.  How could anyone think this way?  How could a man with a daughter think this way?  Or a…

Drawing The Line- Trump and Entitlement

Ladies, I had a meltdown last night.  Only, true to my introverted self, nobody could tell because it was entirely internal. This post will possibly be a trigger for some, so please be prepared for that. So, unless you live under a rock, you heard about Trump’s scandalous video that was released yesterday.  (And since…

Inside Her Head- Chapter 1

I am used. One would consider me as they would a pair of shoes in a thrift store. Only the most desperate opting to dirty their feet with the filth of a stranger.

Five Myths That Destroy A Rape Victim

So many well-intentioned people offer support in the form of, “I’m here if you want to talk about it.” It? For a victim, every ounce of emotional energy will be spent figuring out what “it” is.

I Need Your Submissions

“God isn’t OK with you being this way. You need to snap out of it. And it’s not that hard. Come on and get normal already.”

Sorry For The Interruption

My younger sister was killed in a car crash.

I cannot explain what goes through your head when you lose someone you love. It has just felt like a permanent emotional brain fog.

A Living Suicide

First, I would like to apologize to the readers of this site.  While our traffic has continued to grow (over 3,500 visits!), my posting has dropped straight off a cliff. However, this is mostly due to my preparing for an 1,900 mile cross-country move! As I was packing for this overwhelming trek, I realized that…